How Will I Ever Get Through This?
How Will I Ever Get Through This?
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By Dr Lucy Hone
“I cannot recommend this book highly enough. It is honest, generous, and deeply wise.” — Jillian Coppley, VIA Institute
“Lucy’s insights are practical, wise and deeply human - they stay with you long after you read them.” — Chelsea Pottenger, EQ Minds
A practical guide to navigating life's toughest times.
How Will I Ever Get Through This? explores the grief that can come with life changes that don't involve death, including divorce, illness, estrangement, infidelity, redundancy, and infertility. Through 20 key questions, researcher and resilience expert, Dr Lucy Hone offers practical, compassionate guidance that truly supports readers make sense of change and loss, find their way through difficult change and look towards what comes next.
About the author:
Dr Lucy Hone is best known for her hugely popular TED talk, Three Secrets of Resilient People. Translated into 23 languages and viewed more than nine million times worldwide, it is now ranked among TEDx’s Top 100 “Must Watch” talks.
Lucy is also a bestselling author, respected researcher, a popular speaker, and a mum of three. An adjunct senior fellow at the University of Canterbury, her research is published internationally, and both her PhD and professional work have been acknowledged globally for their outstanding contribution to the field of resilience and psychology.

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